Relationships often get stuck—not because we don’t care, but because we don’t know what to do when our needs clash or our wounds get activated. Terry Real, the founder of Relational Life Therapy, teaches that most of us fall into patterns he calls The Five Losing Strategies—habits that feel self-protective in the moment but ultimately sabotage intimacy.

Terry Real's teachings on fierce intimacy provide a roadmap for couples seeking to cultivate a profound and authentic connection. By embracing radical openness, practicing emotional presence, fostering accountability, setting healthy boundaries, and prioritizing self-care, individuals can embark on a journey toward deeper emotional intimacy. As we integrate these principles into our relationships, we open the door to a transformative experience—one where love is not only felt but fiercely lived, creating a bond that withstands the tests of time and adversity.