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Are You a Bad Listener? (Or Just Using the Wrong Style at the Wrong Time?)
At The Deep Center, we believe that deep connection starts with deep listening. But even the best of us get tripped up—not because we’re bad listeners, but because we’re using the wrong listening style at the wrong moment.
There are three primary listening styles we teach and work with in relationship work:
Empathetic Listening
Solution-Based Listening
“Me Too” Listening
Each one has its place. Each one is valuable. But when you use them without intention or without agreement, they can cause more harm than help.
Let’s break them down.
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